last night after feeling uselss and thinking about it
I searched on line and found this link too.

http://sandeelee.blogs.com/bullying/

taken from the link

"A bully can think of all kinds of ways to make another person feel hurt, afraid, uncomfortable, or just plain miserable. It can be physical, verbal, or emotional. Often bullies torment a victim over a long period of time, increasing the victim's sense of fear and distress."