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I'm not sure if "addiction" is what it is......I wonder if it's more what we are used to being around and in? We kind of know what to expect in those kinds of relationships. There seems to be a comfort level in being in relationships that are familiar, even when they are unhealthy. And until we learn how to break that connection and begin seeing signs of an unhealthy relationship we don't seem to change much in that direction. I hope that makes sense...LOL.
Of course that is my opinion and it may not be correct for everyone

sabby