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Old Aug 13, 2008, 12:19 PM
Anonymous81711
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Hi countrymusicgirl!

I'm sorry you are having such a hard time. I can sort of relate - I have a five month old who was..unplanned. Though I am 26 I wasn't ready to have a child of my own accord - but I decided that I would make the best of it and I love my little boy to absolute bits.

This whole pregnancy and birth will change you, much for the better. At least thats the way it was for me. When that little baby is born, and you first look at him or her, you will realize that the comments and everything are just that - comments. People said alot of crap about me too before I had my baby - that I wasnt responsible, i slept around, i couldnt be a mother - and so far I am doing an awesome job according to the very same people who said the mean things.

Yes 16 is young, but it doesn't mean that you can't come through this a better person, I don't think. It just means its going to be a little bit harder for you as a parent, but trust me, its all worth it.

Anytime you want to chat PM me ok? If you want advice, information, anything, just a shoulder to rant on I am here