Dear Gordian Knot,
I'm new to this forum and when reading through posts have been drawn to yours as your story is quite similar to mine though my husband has not been diagnosed as Bipolar. His actions (e.g., online and in-person affairs, financial recklessness, etc) have hurt the family. The wonderful relationship we once had is becoming more of a memory. We are working on things but its so hard to rebuild trust. I was so pleased to see in your last post that you decided to stay and things are finally better. I know it takes a long time, but how long? Would love to hear more about how you reached the point of a better and stronger relationship. Thank you for sharing your story.
A.