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jinnyann said:
i really feel like having a good swear right now.



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That's another reason for pillows jinny...punch them or punch with them...It is good for the soul...

I know how good it feels to be validated jinny..sometimes we need to not feel invisible.

But we must be able to learn to validate ourselves too. To know that we have value beyond human suffering. To measure our value upon the attention we receive here, there or anywhere diminishes that value.

I watch you give of yourself here,,I'm sure you do also IRL. I see your compassion. It is real. You know where your Peace will come jinny,,that real Peace of loving yourself.

It won't come from me or anyone telling you how special you are...it will come from you telling us how special we are..

IMHO.

Lenny