All is taken in love AG. And I take everything from the others in a positive supportive way.

The reason I'm here isn't to find out that I'm attractive and change my attitude about that as you seem to assume. I just want others to know the frustration and hurt I'm forced to live with.

Angel Girl, I'm just SO sick of hearing women tell me looks are superficial. They all say this but their actions speak differently. AG, you've made it guite obvious how you show interest in the guys in this forum who are attractive. Women have told me time and time again how it's "all on the inside" but when it comes to who THEY select, their rules go right out the window.

Yes, what's on the inside is most important. But if there's nothing on the outside, none of that will ever matter.

LMo, you say it's "in my head" that people still tease me and call me ugly? No, it's very real and there's hardly a day that goes by where I'm not reminded.

1day, I told you our situations are different and that your lack of opposite sex contact was your choice.

Jo and Angie, your caring is noted and very much appreciated. Most people's reference to "unattractive" (as in unattractive people still finding someone) is still far more attractive on the scale than where I am.

I HAVE NO CHOICE when it comes to ever finding someone.

My theory is that I was born with out the gene responsible for sexual attracion. I'm seen as an non-sexual person.

Bottom line is: If there's not one bit of sex appeal in a person to begin with, all the attitude, personality, and positive thinking are worthless.

ZERO X anything = ZERO