((((((((((( jinnyann and all ))))))))))))))

It's very easy for people without DD or DID to say, 'All you have to do is love yourself...'

The fact is, various parts can be so different from each other that it is near impossible for them to love each other.

For example, you may have an angry teenager-part flying around at the moment, she has every right to be angry and feels hated. We don't hate her but because of the splits in your own system it's super scary and will take a long time for each part to understand and work together.

I don't doubt you are a good Mother, many people with DID are very caring of others. So don't beat yourself up about that.

For any teenage part it is a good idea to let her let off some steam and then you can relax a bit hopefully.