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It's very easy for people without DD or DID to say, 'All you have to do is love yourself...'

The fact is, various parts can be so different from each other that it is near impossible for them to love each other.


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I humbly defer to those who do indeed suffer from those maledies. There is no way I can truly understand the conflict.

However if I understand correctly,,there is a primary,,and that is the person I try to speak to when I share. That is the persona that will or will not ultimaely take the responsibility for choices of integration of not. I know I am not always succesfull.

There is a need for willingness, no matter the challenges we face, to change,,to overcome the fear, to find solutions,,that I try to gently promote.

I do not have the answers, nor will I ever claim too...

I can only share my experience, strength and hope.

IMHO.

Lenny