(((dayandnight))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))
Its amazing how strong those kids are.
Is there maybe something else going on?
When my son was young. And his angre was great. I would take his
hands very calmy ((and I know its hard to be calm when your scared)) As in that rage they see really nothing.
Any ways take his hands adn hold them and look him in the eyes and speak very softly.... and you are going to have to tell him this is unexceptable way to behave.
If you are at risk of being harmed and it has come to the point that you can not keep him safe . He and you both may need extra help.
Sadly fustration does play a big part in this. They are fustrated mostly with themselfs and the world around them
What they see is not as you and i may see it.
And they feel things so deeply.
Part of this maybe the ADHD
My son does not have that.
It is so hard for them as with everyone when fustration happens
Please know I care and I am so sorry you and your son and family are going threw this. You are not alone
Muffy
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