lately i have had two people tell me that i am like a "dude". that's of course with the intention of fitting the stereotype of what a man is "suppose" to be like. i am judged to be cold hearted because i can move on from a relationship farily quickly. i think that people misunderstand me. it's more of a self-preservation techinque as opposed to being cold hearted. i am not the type to stay depressed over something that is over because i feel it is not healthy for me to do so. so i move forward with my life. i feel that my life can't stop because a relationship has ended. is that being cold hearted?