I don't think that is being cold hearted at all. Everyone deals differently in life. To judge you as being cold is their perception of how one should be reacting to a specific stimuli. If how you are accepting things works for you, then that's all that matters. I would ask them if you carried the torch to the point of being completely depressed and upset over a relationship break....what in the world would be accomplished by doing so? I would also ask if you should be worried about making someone else feel better or yourself since it's YOUR relationship???

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sabby