Chaotic,
My T has a legal pad and a pen in his hand more times than not.

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Well... because then she will know that I am aware of her note taking tendencies and might become more covert about it ... . :-)

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ROFL! I feel the same way! It's like, I don't want to ask T what he is writing because I've kind of figured out a cause/effect as to what he is writing about what I say. If I tell him this, he may change his behavior. Thanks for the laugh This is just hilarious!

I am curious also, but I kind of feel like I would be crossing a boundary or something by asking him. I have been with my T for 3 years now, and the curiosity does lessen over time. Best of wishes to you!