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I've given sound logical reasons for why I think as I do and they're not being truly addressed.

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Sound and logical to you, maybe, but certainly not for the rest of us. Your problems aren't JUST your looks; it's your way of thinking.

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I'm gettng the same response of "let's just think positive thoughts and you'll be fine and dandy" or I am "warped".

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Turning your negative thoughts into positive ones is the best way to begin to see yourself in a different light. I've posted the ways to change thinking mistakes.

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So the severe teasing (verbal attacks on my appearance) in my youth had nothing to do with my looks?

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Maybe some of the teasing, but you certainly don't have a corner on THAT market! Kids are known for being uncaring, unfeeling and unmerciful. We ALL suffered at the hands of others calling us names.

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The rude comments I still get to this day have nothing to do with my looks?

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In my opinion, you take comments you hear and personalize them immediately without even allowing the posibility that YOU ARE NOT the subject of the comment. I've even wondered if the comment was made in the first place.

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The fact that no woman has ever touched me, much less expressed interest in me has nothing to do with my looks?

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From what I've experienced with you, no, it probably isn't ALL because of your looks.

And as for you thinking that we've made kind statements to you JUST to make you feel better? WRONG To me, personally, that is a LIE if I don't really mean it. I DON'T MAKE KIND STATEMENTS JUST to make anyone feel better. If I don't mean it, I don't say it! That's just a bill of goods you've sold yourself so that you don't have to believe or take action on what was said to you.