I have been victimized
I was ina fight that was not a fair fight
I lost...
There is no shame in lsoing such fights.
I have reached the stage of survivor
and am no longer a slave of 'victim' status.
I look back with sadness rather than hate.
I look forward with hope, rather than despair.
I may never forget, but I need not
constantly remember.
I WAS a victim....
I AM A SURVIVOR!

don't know where I got this. found it in my journal.