Ya know, Complic8d,

I used to just want the littles inside to SHUT UP. I wanted to be able to live my grown-up life without them. I wanted to be "over it" and not to have to "deal" with it.

That drove me just about crazy - on top of being DID!

They got very upset with me about being ignored and told to shutup.

I think they HAVE to be heard or things get worse and worse.

The nicer I treat them, the easier it is to get along with them.

Hugs, I know it's not easy.