The definition of PTSD does include much of that. (One reason I don't rely upon wiki

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I don't like the term mental illness. Mental unwellness, mental disorder.. those are quite correct though imo.
If thinking about this upsets anyone further (their having a mental illness) then don't think about it. Terms are useful to psychologists for plotting a course for healing, and for getting paid by the insurance companies for that course of therapy.