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((((((((((((((( purplebutterflly ))))))))))))))))))))))

How brave of you to get this painful experience written out and posted. You took a huge step by speaking of what happened to you. All the anger and pain you are feeling is a normal thing to go through when you've been taken advantage of like you were.

No one here looks down on you because of what was done to you. No one here thinks less of you because of it either. We have a huge respect for you because you are a woman who was hurt badly and who is struggling to come through all the pain and feelings that are going through you right now.

If you can find a way to take yourself out of this equation and look at the scenarios from the aspect of it happening to someone else, would you think that the child was to blame for what happened to her? Would you think that the uncle was to blame for forcing himself on a child??? If so, then I hope you can also find it within yourself to now accept that control was taken away from you. As a child you did the best you could do. Now, as an adult, you are left to suffer with the consequences, but hon....it is NOT a life sentence. I do so hope you are in or can get into therapy. It will help you come to terms with so many things and you can then begin to put yourself back together again.

So many folks here care about you. We send you understanding and hope and hugs.


sabby

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