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It is my experience that this systems approach can be very damaging and requires a lot more of the person most willing to change. The system martyr may not make it though the process in one piece.

</div></font></blockquote><font class="post">That's an interesting view. I am going to think about that. I have been feeling like the family martyr lately (not really due to therapy) and I am really exhausted with it. I have not felt before that the family systems approach in therapy requires one person to be a martyr. What would your T say if you told her that? Would she agree that there needs to be a martyr and that person needs to be you?