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Old Aug 15, 2008, 05:22 PM
SpottedOwl SpottedOwl is offline
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Wow, what a great response.

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I actually disagree that my relationship with my H is over. We will be forever linked because we are the parents of our children.

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Thank you for saying that, and for recognizing that. Even if your daughter is not in a place she can appreciate your work, I will thank you for her. I'm afraid my parents have never realized this. (20 years later, they *still* won't talk to each other.)

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It is kind of embarrassing and shameful to me how bad this is and that I cannot handle this on my own. So I'm seeking professional help. My daughter has become very abusive towards me and won't stop, despite my efforts. I don't know what to do. She is verbally, emotionally, and physically abusive.

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From everything you've written here, it sounds to me like you are doing great work, and there is no shame in asking for help.

I hope the family T can help your daughter express what is bothering her in a non-abusive manner.

My heart goes out to you both.
And, definitely let us know how it goes.

Many, many