I think you'll find that you can have yet another completely diff relationship with this T. Like, it probably took a while for it to sink in how completely bizzare our relationships with a good T can be....? But, bizzare in a good way.

Now you have a completely NEW dynamic to encorporate into your concept of what relationships can be like. Now you have 3-somes! You have H plus a helper. Really, how cool is that? You will adjust to H talking so much - it's a good thing after all. And, you can ask you MT to to give you some alone time too...like 1/2 a session occasionally, or some phone time. That will allow you to express some of this discomfort.

You just need some time to adjust to all this change and find your place in this new setting. You WILL adjust and you will find your stable place to speak from. It may just take a few sessions to settle in to this new environment!! Give yourself a break snookums! It's new and scary. Take it all in, and KNOW that you are growing. That's really wonderful.

Slippers