i'm glad you understand bebop.....sometimes i feel watching them suffer is worse....but to them it can't be...they lived it ya know?

but yes...the residual anger is a hard one to know what to do with. we can't take their pain or anger but....wives feel pain and anger too. i really don't think that should be any less discounted....but don't wish to discount what the men go thru.

i'm sorry..... my head is just so screwed up over this tonite and i'm afraid to say how i really feel about it for fear of offending someone.

%#@&#!, where is a womans sargeant mother when she needs him?