Pink, my husband and I are in couples therapy and on the first session this T ended up in the bathroom at the same time as me after we ended.

No one else was in there and she asked me about using a certain diagnosis...I almost fainted. The next time H and I were discussing appropriateness of dress or not in front of our son.

This T said at my insistence that my son not see more of mommy or daddy than he needs to "isn't this really more about you than H?"...I said huh? "yes it seems as if there is something there..." I said oh like sexual abuse in my history?

Her response to that? OH YES, IT IS SO SO OBVIOUS THAT YOU HAVE THAT BACKGROUND. Okay, I immediately called my T in a panic, almost insane and he calmed me.

Oh but then we had the 16 day break I never knew about so I crashed, came up and then crashed again.

Dontcha just love therapy sometimes? I guess the point is no these are not our normal therapists and yes you are right, they are going to shake us up a bit.

In my case, it is getting easier and I bet it will for you too