((((((((((( jinny )))))))))))))

I'm glad to hear that A is recovering from her ordeal. That is great news.

Now, as far as your mum knowing what's been going on and if you should tell her or not.... I would say, stay right out of it. A is an adult and as such can decide who she wishes to inform and who she doesn't wish to inform of her situation. It sounds to me like A has made her mind up as to who is important in her life. You are important as you are well aware of her situation.

So what if your mum finds out that you know what is going on? She is aware there is no contact between you and her and no contact between her and A. You cannot control her experiences in life my friend....this is on her and her alone. If A wanted your mum to know, she would have asked (if she couldn't do it herself) for someone to contact your mum.

Take care of YOU and be a friend to A. That's all that is required of you hon The rest is out of your hands and your control.


sabby