Of course you would want to know if a "friend" was ill. But it seems from what you said that A does not consider your mum a friend anymore? I can certainly understand your line of thinking there hon...and that comes from having a big heart and wanting to "fix" things. (hmmm I wonder how I know about that??? ) It's sometimes hard to step back and logically remember that WE can't fix everything...nor does everyone want us to


sabby