Actually i did ask A. Well,i asked her if she'd like my mum to know .... and she said she was scared of my mum putting the phone down on her ..... same as me..... so i thought the letter would stop A going thru that .... A is a wonderful, caring and generous person ..... she's been such a good friend to my mum .... i will ask her again if she'd like me to let my mum know, but i think i already know the answer .....

my mother is so foolish ...... she has lost a really good friend in A, all because she couldn't get her own way .... was a 45 year friendship worth losing over a wedding that A and hubby didn't go to? It's so sad.....

ty for thinking bout this Sabby, it means a lot to me ..... love you, Kerry xoxoxoxoxoxo