Hey Candika,
I'm glad you left him a message about your afterthoughts, and hope it relieved some anxiety.
If this were me, no way would my T ever believe it was "by accident." He would be analyzing it TO DEATH......
I agree with the others. I don't think a T would watch a video with his wife. I don't know why I don't think that, but it just seems that they wouldn't.
Hang in there.