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The trouble is an abuser or parent knows exactly how to get to those child-parts and make us feel guilty and bad and make us feel once again that we are the ones at fault.
In my teen years I was the one that got away, never to have to put up with 2 abusers in my life again. Little did I know that I would be haunted forever by them.
I still had another abuser in my life, up until about a year ago. I had many sessions in therapy on how to handle a dreaded phone call. Each time I failed and this past abuser would take me back 'there.' He knew exactly what he was doing!

But then, another child-part came out from within me, I don't know exactly what she said to him but I have never heard from that bastard since!
I don't know why I wanted to share this with you, I hope it helps in some way.
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