My ex was also one of my abusers at one point. When we first started out, he was so great and awesome to me. We were engaged 6 months after being together because we found out I was pregnant but soon after he started doing drugs (at the time I was still clean) and staying out all the time. We got into a fight one night about it and I lost my child from him kicking me several times in the stomach while I was down. Me being stupid loving him, I stayed. He broke up with me because I was always 'nagging' on him. blah!

But last I heard he was off drugs, in an outpatient program and had his life straightened up. I know he's a good person because I seen it in him for a long time... But the drugs took over him, as it does most addicts.