ty so much for your response jmo...I appreciate it very much. I actually do understand this very much as I've had this conversation with a few doctors about this.

Here is the problem. This particular program is not offered widely here. This hospital is the only one in the area. In fact the insurance person was so helpful and he could see it for himself what type of program and that it wasnt offered anywhere else. My local social services wouldn't be of any real help. I've been in those hospitals and they weren't of any help really. This is a program that rehabilitates ppl with bbd with DBT.

Anyways, I appreciate your input ...thank you