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Old Aug 17, 2008, 10:41 PM
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He asked me if I want to continue with this.

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I kind of hate when they say this. Its like a surgeon asking you half way through surgery... "Hey, this is going to hurt like hell tomorrow, do you still want to continue? Of course if we stop here, you'll feel like crap tomorrow anyway."

I always like the.... "you only have to say what you want to or what your comfortable with saying"... statements. OK so if I just sit here in silence, I'll feel better.

I think it is their way of letting themselves off the hook when they steer you some where and realize they've opened up Pandora's box. Then when you lose it they can say... "Well it was your choice to talk about this."

I wish my T would just say... "Look, in order for you to get over this and put it to bed, we need to sit and discuss all the dirty details, period! Start with X.
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