i can relate too.

i've had to recently speak to my dad, and he is always concerned about himself - not others.

he can't even call and say - sorry you are sick - or better yet, don't call, send your wife out to buy a card ... that would be great since he doesn't get around much.

but nothing ... it is hard to take rejection, but i have my whole life.

it's easier when i don't deal with any of them, except send cards on holiday and birthday to one parent only now.

why go thru the crappy treatment that these people dish out - heck, it's not worth it.

some people cannot change.

at least we have a life and people who aren't afraid of us and how we will treat them.

love,
night

xoxoxoxoxo

the kids will be fine, it's us - we worry too much.
my kid was visiting, went out one night, i couldn't sleep till she came in the door ... i quickly became an actress too, lol, because she would be insulted at her age that i was pacing the floors - even sent my fella out in the car to check on her - i am sooooooo bad, i know.

thought you'd get a kick out of that one.

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