Just Go.
I would hope the one having trouble trusting the t would come out and talk to the t about it.
I had alters who had absolutely no reason on earth to trust anyone. Either they would come out and be smart mouthed and hostile or more often just hang back and watch and listen. It takes me a long time to trust anyone. Of course it would take my abused alters a very long to time to believe anyone or anything.
I would think your t gets that and would welcome times to talk to the ones who need the most help. They need to know it's OK to be mad, OK to doubt people, OK to be right where they are. They have a reason to be mad and to not trust. That needs to be validated. Under all that tough talk is fear. Fear of being hurt one more time. Why wouldn't they feel that way?
I'm sure your t can handle some anger.
Will keep you in my thoughts,
Judee
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