Hi Silver, you were trying to meet your needs and you weren't being selfish! Hmmmm, this scenario that you just explained is making it a little clearer to me why you might be where you are......

You are seeing the situation correctly here:

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it's been like this since I was really little, I don't do something mom's way and all of a sudden I'm a selfish horrible person and I deserve to be yelled at or hurt. She has always guilted me into doing things, I have a horrible guilt complex and she works it to her benifit.......

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