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was very careful setting my blog. all personal info is fake. email is never given on msn spaces (not my space) unless someone is added as your friend list. (I have no friends) If someone contacts you it is never sent to your inbox it is sent to your site were you go to retrieve it. instant messages from my blog are never given my personal IM contact info. Thanks for all of the info and for all of you never ending help though. we can end this conversation as to not spook anyone else that is having a bad day. Again Thanks.
PS I do not now or have I ever had a problem with spam as you were talking about. I have never received unsolicited mail. If that gives you any insight into my reclusive paranoia and self protectiveness. (especially on the internet) It is disheartening that in my 10 years of owning a computer that the first time that I come outside to play with anyone (if you will) that I get hit by a car.