Shadow,

I'm really sorry he was unkind and did not accept. Maybe he will accept like someone said, when he has time to think it through...

With all the mean jokes and stuff the world says about us he may have just felt fear when you told him.

If its just selfishness then phooey on him. If it is fear and a need to understand more then maybe it will be ok.

Sadly, my husband of 28 years refuses to accept it. He thinks I use this for an excuse to keep from having to "just get over it all"!!! Boy, that makes me really angry when I think about that (so I don't very often) - what a crock to think I would choose this way to "duck my responsibilities"!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! GRRRRRRRR!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Shadow, I believe you. My children, like yours believed me too. They had seen for years that mom changed and acted like a kid sometimes. They were mostly just relieved to understand what was going on and basically why it happened.

shadow, we soree he meen to u. we be u freen. boys can be dum!

HUGS!!!

Leslie and Mariah and the pixies!

(for him)


(for you!)