SE,
no offense taken!! I should not have worded it that way (again my mistake). But let me let it be known that I am not in need of rescuing nor am I looking for that. You have provided me with a wealth of information that I never would have known about. Just like religion I will keep what I need for self and dismiss the rest. I may suffer from "mental distractions" but please rest assured that I am not one to depend on anyone. I do understand your concerns though and have seen it happen. So please wipe you brow and sigh a big sign of relief if I have made you think that this was happening in any way at all. I had a bad weekend and the emails were just the straw and I thank you for tracking down the information for me at all. but please believe me it is a HEALTHY respect! not a dependence! If I was a dependent person I would be here whining not seeking knowledge!! Again Thank you