I can identify...I moved out into a ratty furnished trailer, leaving everything in the house.."HIS" house, after 20 years of marriage. I even let him write the divorce agreement himself...I was so intimidated by him. In retrospect, I should have gotten a sharp lawyer to help me thru it, but at the time, I feared making him angry!
I hope you are somewhere safe, and that you will seek legal counsel.
Patty