For me, feeling safe means I can speak calmly about what I am feeling without having a huge guard up. Feeling safe means that I can disagree with what he says without fear of repercussion. Feeling safe means I can show the sides of me that are not so nice without fear of reprisal. Feeling safe means I can take risks--show him all the parts of me, including those I am not proud of.

(((Candka))))