Hi Griffe. Sounds like this part may be a protector of sorts? I know it sounds weird when he is threatening you and scaring you, but maybe once upon a time threatening you and 'keeping you in line' was a way of keeping you safer?

We have had / still have parts like that. I am trying to write to them, talk aloud to them, let them know they did a good job and I thank them for it. Try to tell them things can be done a different way now, and that if we work together they themselves can begin to have some better experiences than what they have had up until now. Some of them we have managed to befriend, and others we are still working on.

I sure know how scary those kinds of parts can be. Keep working at it, Griffe.