Hi Internettie, what you explained makes sense to me. Could it be that you don't cry over the abuse because you had to toughen up over it to survive. Crying when you are cared for allows you to soften up and get in touch with your emotions? Could you also be crying just because you are finally being taken care of? It's almost like a happy cry?
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