Ingomar,

You do have red flags flying here. Is there EVER a theraputic situation that is helped by "bullying"!

No matter what else you said, I think it is very important to realize you feel bullied by this person. How can you trust her and work with her if you feel bullied and/or manipulated by her.? I think that would be a deal-breaker for me.

Maybe you should keep looking for a new T you can trust more. I'm sorry this happened to you.

Leslie