It's hard enough to make a decision when important things like your marriage and future are riding on it. You question every thought and every motive. So what do you do when you have friends who offer support in a way that seems like they're pushing you in one direction or the other? What if you don't want to go in the direction they're pushing but you also know that their opinion is not completely off target? How do you tune it out and listen only to your own voice?