it sounds as tho you are feeling a little insecure within this relationship maybe, i feel getting some good advice concerning your rights with housing and money may help you feel more confident in making a real life changing decision remember both people in a positive productive relationship need to feel valued it sounds as if you dont feel that right now, remember to think about what you need check this out with trusted individuals to see if what your asking is fair then ask b/f if he can meet what your asking and remember to ask him too if he has needs communication is the key, good luck stay strong
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