Gary, not once have you addressed whether you will consider therapy. I know you're going to say this is me showing my "true colors", but I consider it tough love and taking care of myself. I'm putting a block on you so I can't see your posts until I've gotten word that you've started therapy. Your posts pain me too much with their illogic and self-sabotage. You have a lot to offer women and friends, but as long as you are committed to staying stuck in this self-absorbed rut, you'll never find it. You need help and until you agree to get it, I have to back out of this altogether. I'd love to be friends with you, but I have enough struggle in my life.

I'm sorry, but please feel free to PM me if you ever start therapy.