LOL I think most daughters want to be as little as possible like their mothers but I know one thing that she resented was when I warned her or "foretold" how something would turn out, I was always right. Did she ever resent that!!

There were many times, especially as she got older, that we'd finish each other's sentences or we'd look at each other and know what the other was thinking. There were also the times that we'd say the same thing in exactly the same way at the same time. It was like hearing something being said in stereo. LOL I used to miss that a whole lot. With time, I've gotten used to not having the other half of me. I'm sure she breaths sighs of relief, though.

Her biggest problem though, is her Borderline Personality Disorder, the distrust and the paranoia that comes with it. There's nothing I can do about that except pray for her. I've learned to accept that. I've also learned to accept the loss of two of my grandsons, her boys. They're out there, I love them and I pray for them daily. What happens after that is in God's hands.