Wendy, truly, for me the possibility of any kind of a reconciliation is so far from reality that I haven't given it any thought. All the reports I get from family, she is still bad mouthing me quite a bit, most of which isn't true. It's her skewed perception of me. The worst I heard was that I am to her what alchohol is to an alchoholic. What do you with that but just step farther away from any hope of a reconciliation. In a way, she's admitted that the problem lies with her. What more can I say or do?