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Old Aug 21, 2008, 06:36 AM
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I, personally, think it's inappropriate for her to have used his name. What if it hadn't been the guy you were involved with?

More concerning to me is the way she pushed you. She could have encouraged you to explore your reluctance to name him helped you explore what might happen if you did name him. Her naming him takes it out of your hands, and it's your therapy and your feelings. I know in my therapy, feeling in control is a really big issue; she took the control out of your hands in this situation.