to my friend and great support i have found here...you know i wish you and your son the best in everything you do..i know these are trying times right now but the bottom line is despite finances you need to get healthy..no matter what the cost..one thing these hosplials cant do is refuse medical treatments..cuz we all have the right to care..i guess the only advice i to would have is to set up any payment arrangement you can for whatever your insurance doesnt cover..seek any outside agencys there is to help for emergency medical treament..maybe once you are in the hospital and being a single mom someone through social services at the hospital can direct you..i think it really stinks not only do we have to sturggle with the issues we have but when will this country see that mental illness needs coverage...finaces add to depression ..i understand that but they cant get blood froma rock...set up payments arrangements for the balance....forget the finaces as hard as it is...and get healthy...we love you!!!!!!!