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Old Aug 22, 2008, 03:40 PM
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Sannah said:
Interesting how you feel disconnected from him because of this? To give you "normal info" (I needed to learn tons of this stuff!) "healthy" folks can get angry with each other without feeling disconnected. Please do not take this wrong!

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LOL - no, I TOTALLY need to learn what is "normal", believe me!

And I do hope that someday I will be able to be angry without feeling disconnected. I'm just not there yet, apparently!

I am always ready to shut down and run away from T. I'm learning not to do it, but it's just my instinct. I'm always on guard, looking for a sign that it's time to cut and run. I'm learning that I'm not going to have to do that with T - that he is safe - but it makes it hard to stay connected when we have a misunderstanding.

I DO hope to be normal someday! Really!