The question wasn't wrong! I just wonder if no one has a good response. I read the whole post but didn't want to reply because I had a really bad experience with ECT. So, I didn't want to throw my 2 cents in.
If they have both helped at different times, but affect you physically, I guess it may be choosing the one that would be the safest, if the docs could come to that conclusion.
Hope you find the right solution, and there are lots of great people here, AND, no wrong questions!
Take care